Why the spirit life is important to some people and not others is something about where your spirit is ascended to via God. Some people do suffer for loving God but even God would not want them to suffer at his expense. Perhaps the only way to understand why you have to suffer is to find out where God could go missing. God is everyone and everything but not all people are part of God or allow God in their hearts. But those who do often do not understand Gods divine message and God does work in mysterious ways. So, even when you are suffering you may not be able to comprehend why God makes you suffer. God only wants to try and help.